Those horses get just like the people what owns ‘em
12.08.11
Those horses get just like the people what owns ‘em
By Terri Jo Bek, Professor, Nebraska College of Technical Agriculture
I grew up with a dad that thought if a child wanted a horse then he or she should have one. My grandad on mom’s side spent most Junes as I grew up hauling horses to town so everyone could ride in the local rodeo parade. My dad also arranged for kids to have horses to ride in the rodeo parade. The ironic part of the parade situation was the fact that grandad actually participated in only one parade when I was about two years-old. He drove a team of mules and a box wagon, while the neighbor did blacksmithing in the back of the wagon. My dad never rode in the parade until my daughter was 4 years old and he took her on my brother’s buckskin horse, “Bucky.” He couldn’t get over how everyone was yelling and hollering at him and taking pictures. He said, “They act like they’ve never seen me on a horse.” To which we replied, “They’ve never seen you in the rodeo parade on a horse.” Amazing what grandparents will do for the grandkids.
The parade was held in conjunction with the PRCA rodeo held each year on the first full weekend in June in Strong City, Kansas. It started at the park in Cottonwood Falls, went to Strong City and ended on the north side of Strong City at the rodeo grounds. It used to be quite large. They would have as many as 500 horses, various floats and old vehicles. Fort Riley would send its mounted color guard and we’d had the Navy and Marine bands at different times.
A couple of incidents concerning the parade stand out in my memory. Dad found out that a couple of my cousins wanted to ride the year I was an eighth-grader. He volunteered my services to supervise the entire operation. My grandad volunteered to bring more parade-broke horses to town. In the midst of all this my sister, who has Down Syndrome, decided that she also wished to participate. Every time we asked her if she was sure she was going to ride the entire distance, she assured us that she was. We gathered at the park and got everyone situated. Cousin Steve would ride a half-shetland colt we had that Dad was positive would be fine even though he’d never been in a parade. Sister Vicki would ride Grandad’s brown horse, Tick. We were pretty sure that if he was put into the parade with his reins up, he’d walk the route, turn around and return to the pick-up spot in Strong City where Grandad waited for us each year. Cousin Doug was pretty small and hadn’t had a great deal of experience riding so we put him behind me on grandad’s horse, Drifter. Grandad hung around and hung around to make sure everyone was going to be all right in the parade. He finally got into his truck and drove away. I could still see the taillights of his vehicle when my sister turned to me and said, “I don’t want to ride Tick anymore.” Those of you who have been around Downs children are laughing, because you all know that once they make up their mind there is no way to change it. You have to take a completely different route that they might find acceptable.
I took a deep breath and asked Doug if he would be willing to ride Tick. He readily agreed. The hard part came when I said a silent prayer and asked Vick if she’d be willing to ride behind me on Drifter. She looked around and I think since she couldn’t see Grandad, she decided it was going to be her best choice. She smiled at me and said, “Course I will!” I got off my horse, made the switches and had “thoughts” of my father.
I was feeling pretty smug by the time we’d made it through three quarters of the parade. We passed my grandad and came face to face with the railroad tracks in Strong City. The colt came to a screeching halt and decided that railroad tracks were not in his repertoire of things that are safe. No amount of kicking, clucking, and threatening with the reins on his behind caused him to move forward. I knew that Drifter had been used whenever we needed to physically push steers forward, so I got behind the colt. Drifter put his shoulder into the colt’s rear end and shoved him across the tracks.
Grandad was watching and he thought the whole episode was fairly humorous.
He loaded all of us up and took us home after the parade.
Later, I had a little visit with my father and “suggested” the next time he volunteered horses for people to ride in the parade, he could just supervise the operation himself.
The other parade episode involved my brother Jess. He had bone cancer when he was a senior in high school and underwent 18 months of chemotherapy. One of the chemo schedules ended on the Saturday of the rodeo parade. I went with mother to pick him up at the KU Medical Center in Kansas City. He informed me when he got into the car that I was to deliver him to the gate of the park in Cottonwood Falls in time to ride in the parade with his friend, Merl Green. It was about 160 miles to get home. My goal was to get him there without acquiring too many speeding tickets. We put mom in the back of her large Chrysler car and Jess rode shotgun. Mom’s car had a slight vibration at an accelerated speed, so every time she felt the vibration she would make comments like, “I think this car is trying to get its wings out!” and “I’m not paying any fines you all get!” I came to a rather abrupt stop in front of the park gate where Merl was grinning and waiting on one of Dad’s horses. He had Jess’s horse and Jess’s Olathe boots. Mom and I went on to the main street in Cottonwood to watch the parade.
Just as I was sitting down by my grandmother she asked, “Where is Jess?” to which I replied as I looked up the street, “There he is right there.” He and Merl waved at us as they rode by.
I’m sure that if Dad and Grandad were still around they’d be happy to provide anyone a mount if they needed one for the parade as long as neither one of them had to ride in it.













